Cohabitation skills | communication skill

Chapter Three: Cohabitation

Part 4: Communication Skills (Communication Skills and Knowledge)

In the continuation of the third chapter of the topic of cohabitation skills, we intend to talk about communication skills in cohabitation.

There are times when we study a lot and sometimes we have science and knowledge of a problem and we think that it is enough …? But in practice we see that we can not communicate and we can not achieve the desired result, and this goes back to the fact that we only have communication knowledge and have not acquired the necessary communication skills.

What can we do to have a good relationship?

To have a good communication, we definitely need a certain communication skill, and in order to acquire this skill, its main basis is to acquire communication knowledge. If we have to read books, watch a lot of videos, and be able to increase our knowledge and awareness. But we must be aware that these are only the basis for acquiring skills, but in order for these skills to be used in our relationship and have a good effect, we must use the skills and examine them and institutionalize it in ourselves. So that we can know that skill has been acquired.

It’s just like driving skills, and we have to move step by step. In this way, we first read the driving manual and then take the theory test, and then spend several hours practicing driving with an instructor, and then take the practical test again until we are finally able to complete these steps. With acceptance, that is when we can consider driving skills acquired, and it is exactly the same in communication.

What is the first step in acquiring communication skills?

We first acquire communication knowledge and then use this knowledge, and after using it several times, we examine whether we have achieved the desired result in the previous cases or not. After that, we check which part of this knowledge we should upgrade, and after these reviews, we should run again and see the output of our communication knowledge in practice, and have the necessary exercises, and check them twice, and that’s it. Follow these steps to maximize your communication skills, and finally we must reach a stage where we have a communication skill that is completely effective in our communication with our children, family, and others, and we can do what we know as science. And we have gained knowledge and to repeat what we have examined ourselves.

The path to communication skills

We must be aware that there will be a path between skill and knowledge that we must walk in this direction, and in order for us to perfect our communication skills, it is better to follow 3 points, and those points are where, how, and how For example, if I have acquired a communication knowledge to communicate with my spouse, I now need to consider where to use this knowledge and where my spouse can communicate more easily and where I can. How can I best communicate this and how can I have this relationship and how can I establish this relationship between myself and my spouse. The same is true of my relationship with my children, and if I want to achieve communication skills, I need to establish a two-way relationship.

What kind of communication is a good one?

I have to be careful and have the skill that I will be just one side of the relationship. I have to concentrate that I have to be as good a speaker as I have to be a good listener and listen well and actively listen to the other person. I can understand everything I hear with my body language and my confirmation language. So we should always know that a good relationship is a two way relationship.

Communication skills with children and adolescents

But we should know that sometimes the issue of reciprocity may be disturbed and the communication percentage of one party may be higher than the other party, and we can see this issue in our relationship with children and adolescents. We need to manage this by talking less and listening more to teens, but for average 8-year-olds, we need to be more talkative and talk to them at their own age. That is, it should be in a way that we express our content with a lot of excitement and emotions, and in general, 8-year-old children are very good listeners, and vice versa, teenagers want to be heard.

Conclusion

So be aware that in communication skills, we must establish a two-way relationship in our life together and use our knowledge and skills and be flexible, in order to be able to communicate effectively.

I hope you can reach a high level of communication skills in all your communications and that you can be very effective in life.

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