Cohabitation Skills | Cognitive error in communication

Chapter Three: Cohabitation

Part 5: Cognitive error in communication (communication)

Have you ever thought about the biggest cognitive and communication error between humans?

One of the biggest communication errors that can be mentioned is the error of thinking about communication. In fact, it is the same error of inquiry that we constantly deal with and use in our dealings with others. In our relationship with our spouse, children and friends, we are constantly dealing with different thoughts and considerations.

Of course, it should be noted that thinking about starting and creating a relationship before creating that relationship will be very useful and fruitful. Before starting the relationship, we define a series of frameworks for ourselves and do a series of planning.

We need to know that when we get in touch it is better not to think at all. Pay more attention to our feelings and try to understand well so that I can communicate well with the other person and avoid this cognitive error in communication.

Why can’t we communicate well with others?

The interesting thing to note is that unfortunately smart people are not always able to communicate well. This is because they are constantly interpreting the behavior of the audience. They are constantly looking to find out the reasons for the other person’s different behaviors and to investigate why he said it? Or why did he do that behavior? Or what does he mean by these behaviors? And thousands of other interpretations and analyzes ……

Such people will usually have problems in their relationships, even with their spouse. So we must be careful not to make this cognitive and communication error.

Of course, we have to consider that it is usually very good that we think and analyze. But we must use these thoughts and analyzes before entering into communication. But when we enter into a relationship, and especially with our child or spouse, with whom we are in daily contact, stop thinking. Communicate with our friends, spouse, co-worker and children through our perceptions and feelings. Know that this kind of relationship will be very sweet and very continuous.

How to avoid cognitive and communication errors?

So I suggest you turn on the lights completely before entering a relationship. And check all communication skills and after entering the other relationship, turn off the lights and enjoy our communication.

I wish you could achieve this important thing and enjoy all your communication in life.

Hope to see you and goodbye