Cohabitation skills | Psychological differences

Chapter Three: Cohabitation
Part 2: Psychological differences between men and women

In this section, we want to talk about the psychological differences between men and women.

As you all know, there are many physical and behavioral differences between men and women and mental and psychological differences. They are even very different emotionally and perceptually.

Let’s get to know ourselves first

The important thing is that we must first recognize the psychological differences. Then to know what my gender is and to see what characteristics I have and then focus on the opposite sex.

Whether I am a man or a woman, I must first understand the pros and cons and my whole personality as a whole. Then I know the characteristics of the opposite sex. Once I know these qualities, I know that I must value them and respect them. The point that should not be forgotten about the psychological differences between men and women is that women are valuable and empowered in their position, and in the same way men will be valuable and empowered.

Where is the root of the problem?

The problem starts with, for example, when women want to be more powerful, they look like men. Conversely, men mistakenly pretend to be women in order to maintain the family system and to seemingly escape a series of conflicts. If we imitate each other and ignore each other’s spiritual differences, it may give our lives a temporary relief. But after a while, the voice of this inconsistency will rise and the problems will become more apparent and they will no longer be able to solve it.

So what is the solution?

The solution is for men and women to take their place and live in their own way. Then, when they receive their roles and their psychological differences, they then turn to another cognition and live with the opposite sex. In a way that they complement each other and can meet their own needs and the needs of the other party and can achieve peace and perfection of growth.

So if we want to know the psychological differences, it is to achieve a level of peace, not to be like each other. Or, for example, if I see certain traits in my spouse, not to say that I should behave like him.

One of the most important psychological differences between men and women:

One of the most important psychological differences between men and women is that the mental system of women is networked and men is a ladder. That is, for example, if you are at a party or at work, women see the relationships between people in a network and analyze them. But men perceive what they see and have no particular analysis.

In general, the way men and women describe the surrounding society depends on the psychological differences between them. For example, if after a party, the woman’s perceptions of the people inside the party were different from the man’s perceptions, and in fact all the details were taken into account, this is obvious and natural.

Because, in principle, women monitor the behaviors of people in the society analytically and in detail, and in these cases, men must accept this, and for this reason, they listen to their husbands’ opinions and treat them appropriately, and do not confront any abusive Do not have a spouse. Even women have to accept that men are ladders and not tell them to be more careful and meticulous and to treat them inappropriately.

Spectrum of femininity and masculinity:

It should also be noted that femininity and masculinity have a spectrum that some men may be at one level of this spectrum and others at another level. Therefore, it cannot be said that all men are the same or that all women behave the same. But in general, we must accept that the mental and behavioral systems of men and women are significantly different from each other and know that by understanding these psychological differences, we can express more appropriate behavior.

One of the main psychological differences between men and women:

When men have a problem, they try to solve it themselves first, which is why sometimes men talk to themselves and, as the saying goes, go to their own cave alone. But when women encounter a problem, they try to express the problem first, and by explaining the emotions that the problem has created for them, they calm down first and then work on resolving the issue. In fact, this is how they solve problems in the last step. This is one of the major psychological differences between men and women.

At this point I want to tell you that given these psychological differences, if you see a man talking to his wife, know this and check that he may not have found the phone to listen to him. To express his problems and to talk to himself. That’s where you need to feel threatened and just listen, and sometimes being the same hearing is better than thousands of different specialties.

Orbital relationship and goal orientation in men and women:

Another major psychological difference between men and women is the relationship between women and the goal of men. This means, for example, that if you are at a party, the lady is looking for what she can do to make her more happy and examines what she can do to be the best in her relationship.

But the man of the family is thinking about who he can establish a relationship with at the party so that in the future he can be like-minded or help the business or

Be his social relations. In this example, after the party, the woman may say that the families were good and intimate, and the man, while confirming this, points out that in the future, better family and work relationships can be established with them. This means that the man has pursued his goal in the last step and has connected with the members of that family. But women are only thinking about expanding their relationships because this option gives them peace of mind.

I hope that all of you dear ones will achieve a great level of peace and understand the differences between men and women well and enjoy these differences.

Good luck and goodbye